You will never know lunch time frustration, when you’re hungry, tired, worried about something, until you board a motorbike with an incessantly talking rider.
Ideally, all motorbike riders and passengers ought to wear a helmet meaning no communication can take place. Even in the absence of helmets, the wind blows against the direction of the motorbike meaning sound will be lost in between and hence discouraging talking. But no! Some people’s determination will make you marvel.
I swear this man couldn’t shut up. He went to the extent of literally turning to try and be heard. My heart rate was over the roof the whole of that ride. I almost asked him, do you have a wife? A grandmother at home? A friend to talk to back at home? No? That’s unfortunate because you can talk! I wondered so because I recall one of our lecturers mentioning that while taking a history from patients, especially the elderly, they will tend to go on and on mostly about irrelevant things. They will start telling your about their chicken back at home and you have to politely guide them back to track. They do this because they’re lonely. Yes, they’re lonely. Society has neglected the old.
About a fortnight ago, my cousin broke down while explaining to me how our step grandmother has been neglected by everyone. I mean, we visit her, she visits us but that’s about it. Very few check up calls are made to her and she has to live alone for the rest of her life. She talked about how you could feel the excitement and thrill in her voice everytime she picked the phone. As if she was eagerly waiting for the phone to buzz. It broke my heart honestly and made me start to appreciate the essence of nursing homes. Perhaps it’s about time we embrace this idea and set in motion a plan to cater for the old and to give them a reason to continue living long after their children have moved out and spouses died and no one is around for them anymore save for the occasional visits from their grandchildren.
This is why I did not get offended with the man’s chatter for they say be kind always for you never know what someone is going through.